I dunno why we put up with made up days created by corporations to brain wash us into spending more money than we should on things just for the sake of showing how we feel towards those that we love through material gifts. I mean how is V day any different from any other day? Take away the up priced presents and the idea that we're forced to buy a rose or some chocs for that special someone and its just like every other stinking day. If you're wondering why I'm poking at it so much then I'll tell you why. Yeah I was unhappy on that stupid day of yours. No i didn't stay in despite waking up later than usual, I did go out but instead of going out and seeing that particular someone with a group of friends I was forced to go out with my housemate and was subjected to 7whole hours of COD4 just to bury the memory that the person got called off for something and couldn't go for an outing.
Don't even mention the thought that I now realize more than ever that I'm single and have been for the past 4 months or so... what hurts even more is that I've begun to realize is that I'm the type of guy who's just owh so perfect as the third wheel. The one that seems okay and all, reasonably attractive but never gets the girl. I'm the one that always gets to be the third wheel when a pair of my good friends who're together wanna go out and they need a ride. There's nothing wrong with it, its just that some of the time it gets really hard not to notice the intamacy between the two that you so long to have (have again?) and seeing it up close.
Call me emo, call me jealous, call me irrational and a blind fool. A blog is a blog and this is the only place i'll be able to write out my raw thoughts and emotions without having to feel guilty about it or to hide it. Yes I'm an attention seeker it's true, sue me... I like attracting attention even if it is the bad kind coz I can't survive being alone and quiet without human interaction. GAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! fuck the world and it's complexities. Its injustices, imperfections, expectations, and all that....
I miss Y.... we all make mistakes right? We both did... both overreacted... ha ha... maybe I have regrets over what happened... but even if she would take me back I couldn't bring myself to let her. I'm too erratic... too emotional... naive too in my own ways. I'm so out of it that I don't even know what I'm writing about in the first place =D ah yes V day... I just wanna be held again... to feel that sense of security, that illusion that when that person takes hold of me, I am theirs and theirs alone... safe from all that may do me harm...
*Sniffle* Anyways, Happy Valentines people. Congrats to those who've finally gathered the courage to get together with their significant other and all the best to those who've already long been together. I pray for your happiness. As for me... I guess maybe the deities of fate have me on their leash. At least i'll still have cosplay partners right? Sigh...
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I've played lamp-post a million times. ^^ I still do on some occasions. But I'm more of a family lamp-post...cos most of my friends are almost engaged lol and they take me grocery and furniture shopping, and consider me a part of their family. So I guess it's okay. I know what it feels like though to play the third wheel when it's a date. I used to do that back in high school. Well, it's alright, if your past relationships didn't work, maybe you just deserve better. ^^ That's always my consolation to being single or to my relationships never working out (I'm very picky), so yeah things'll work out. A catch like you? 8D I'm sure there will be a long line of girls just waiting at your feet.
Hahaha hey!!! How's australia? Mmm hope you're settling in well. A lamp post you say? Mostly engaged? You must hang with the older crowd more huh? Most of my friends are still struggling with 1st and 2nd base for crying out loud XD
A catch? Huh... maybe... its what everyone tells me... but for some odd reason that's all it ever is. Maybe me and Tamaki have something in common after all =3 the lonely prince (so to speak)
Anyways, have a great time in down under. Knock em surfer dudes dead ya hear? XP
No no, my friends are my age, just practically engaged... ^^; But some have gone beyond fourth base or whatever, if you know what I mean. 8D
Aussie's fine so far, Adelaide's a really nice city, and I'm so happy cos there's like so many concerts, the guys are hot lol and I found one local otaku already haha. Now whether or not he'll keep me company in my horde of non-otaku friends is a different thing.
Lol you're not a lonely prince. Tamaki finds his princess too in the end....I think (at least that's what the later volumes of the manga are telling me), you just need some time. I'm waiting in stride as well. >8D
My sentiments exactly. >.< Sometimes I wonder if there really is somebody for me out there ... but y'know, consider yourself lucky: better to have love and lost, than to have never loved at all, and at least you've 'tasted' what it's like to be in love and have someone love you back. ^^
A bit of advice: You have to learn to love yourself first before others can learn to love you. =P
Heh. I'm gonna stop now before I start to sound like a preachy know-it-all. =.=
But hey, feel better soon, mmkay? ;) You'll find that special significant someone sooner or later~!! ;)
i'm pathetic enough that my guy fren is my decoy boyfriend only so to keep guys away from me and not get hurt again.Always feel like a lamp post when i'm the only girl with the guys.
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